Sunday, April 7, 2013

ON FACING LIFE’S PROBLEMS…(LESSONS FROM THE MECHANIC)


First of all let me start off with a praise report for those who read my blog yesterday and know that I have been having some car issues. My car is fixed!!! To some it may not be a big deal, but to me it is a real BLESSING! It took almost three days, but I am so grateful that the problem is fixed and the Arnold 4 is back on four wheels again. As I do often, I always try to find a spiritual application in the situations I face. I know that there are things that God can teach me even in the simplest of things of life. Well, this situation is no different. I must say that the lessons I learned in this particular situation are courtesy of the mechanic that fixed my car. He is a really neat guy and not only did he fix my car, but he taught me some things about handling problems in life over these last three days. Since I know we all have problems at some point and time in life, I felt that it was necessary to share these nuggets. I hope they are as useful to you as they are to me to help us along our journey. With that being said here are the lessons that I learned from my mechanic…

Lesson #1: He took the time to get to the root of the problem.  – I watched him meticulously dismantle my vehicle in order to get to the source of the problem.  He thought he had an idea of what the problem was, but he said he wanted to be 100% sure. In order to do this, it was necessary to literally break it down piece by piece (I was a little nervous when I saw my car’s innards scattered on my driveway). It took some time to get it figured out, but at the end he was successful in discovering the source of the problem.
How many times have you faced a challenge or a problem and the first thing you did was jump to conclusions about the source of it only to realize that it wasn’t what you thought it was? It is so important to get to the root of the problem. What happens often times is that we tend to deal with the symptoms and the problem continues to reoccur. This is true in friendships, marriages, work related problems as well as spiritual struggles and more. Get to the source of it first so that the problem can be dealt with head on, once and for all.

Lesson #2: He was patient. This goes without saying. This man spent hours on my car over the course of three days! I am sure he had other things that needed to be done. He never complained. He never asked for anything or accepted my offers of taking a water/snack break. He just stayed focused on getting the problem solved. Not once did he seem frustrated. Every time I asked him if the situation was really bad, he just smiled and kept saying I’ll get it fixed. He didn’t even mind that it was rainy, cold and wet one of those days. What an excellent display of patience!
I know that we are in an instant gratification time. We are used to having most things right now. But we must face the facts, there are some things that will require us to wait and patience is a prerequisite for this. Don't rush the process. 

Lesson #3: He had to get some help in order to solve the problem. During the time that he was fixing my car he got on the phone with the auto parts representative and a fellow mechanic a few times. He was seeking their expertise on the part needed and the best way to solve the problem. Once he spoke with them, he would give us an update on their joint conclusion and recommendation.
Sometimes problems we face are beyond our ability to handle them. It’s ok to seek help from others. Yes, you should be prayerful about who you seek counsel from, but there are people who have walked in your shoes and have faced the same or similar struggles. Sometimes God allows us to face things so that we will have to reach out to someone else to solve it. Don't allow your pride to get in the way of getting your breakthrough!

Lesson #4: He stayed the course until the problem was solved. It took time and a great deal of effort, but he stayed with it until the problem was solved. There were times that I felt it didn’t look good and the car was beyond repair, but not him. He kept working at it trying to get it fixed. He had to go back and forth to the parts store until he got the right part. He had to come back to my house at least six times over the course of three days. He amazed me with his tenacity. He stayed the course and at the end he solved the problem! 
Have you ever given up while trying to solve a problem? Are you at the point now where you are about to give up on trying to solve a problem? I know that dealing with some problems we face will take everything in us and out of us to get a solution, but hold steady because there is NOTHING too hard for God. If we will just hold on and allow God to work it out according to His plan.

There may be those that are thinking "This is too simple!" and  "You don't know what I'm going through!". No, I don't know of your situation personally and I would be the first to attest to the fact that life can sometimes throw some pretty tough punches (far greater than car issues), but I believe that in spite of the problem, you can make it. We serve a God that is able to bring us through our struggles, our tough times, our problems, no matter what we face. Hang in there my friends and trust Him to bring you through as the victor! Defeat is not an option! Be encouraged today.
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~ Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us. Romans 8:37
~ I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world." John 16:33

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