FACING CONSEQUENCES

I sounded like a broken record because I had been saying the same things over and over to my oldest. “If you do this, then this will be the result.” I had said this to him so much until I was sick of hearing myself say it. He kept assuring me that he heard me and that he was doing his part. The time came when the evidence would be presented and the truth was ultimately exposed. It wasn’t pretty. He was found lacking. I had to deal a harsh consequence, one that I had promised him I would do. I didn’t enjoy doing it, but I needed him to understand that in life, there are always consequences for our actions. I had to hold him accountable for the choices he made. Tough love at its finest.

As I watched him sulk, and act as if he wasn’t warned or that the consequences he was facing were not a result of HIS actions, I wondered if that’s how I act when God has to deal with me regarding the choices I have made. I hoped not, but I don’t think my reaction is that much different. I can hear God saying the same things to me about my choices. While I am sure He doesn’t rejoice or delight in me facing consequences, I know that He must hold me accountable. It is a part of the process. In dealing with my son I have learned some things or I was reminded of some things about facing consequences.

- Consequences should be expected. We are given a free will to make choices. Although I know God would love it if we always did things His way, He does not force His ways upon us. When we choose not to do things God’s way, we must understand that consequences will follow. It does not matter who you are, your position, your age, or gender you will sooner or later you will have to face consequences. We read in Galatians 6:7-8 “Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap. For the one who sows to his own flesh will from the flesh reap corruption, but the one who sows to the Spirit will from the Spirit reap eternal life.”

- Consequences are necessary. The scripture tells us in Hebrews 12:6 “For the LORD disciplines those he loves, and he punishes each one he accepts as his child." In order to grow us up, discipline is a part of the process. Facing consequences is a part of discipline. God does it because He loves us and wants us to be more like Him.

- Consequences should teach us something. In the process, we should assess the situation and learn something about ourselves.  Hopefully, we will be better equipped to handle the situation the next time. We should not continue doing the same things over and over again, but choose to make better decisions. There are others watching our lives, so it’s important to understand that our consequences go far beyond us.

Perhaps this is not the most encouraging message to hear, but I believe it is important. If we desire to grow in our walk with God, we must study and apply all aspects of His word. 

Be encouraged today!